The start – June 2005                             The wedding – January 2006                                November 2009

Sandras and I first met in March 2005, in Lusaka Zambia when I moved into the flat right above his. He was 27 years old and I was 25 years old. We got married 10 months later in January 2006. We had dated for 7 out of those 10 months.

One of the first things that attracted me…

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August is Women’s month and so for this month I ask Sandras to share his thoughts on the following:

LELEMBA: In this day and age where women are emancipated, ambitious and aggressive with their careers, what is the role of the man in their life?

SANDRAS: The role of the man in their life is to help them grow to ever higher levels of achievement and wisdom. The man in their life whether husband or boyfriend provides supporting feedback and challenging feedback. When feedback is understood, it…

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